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Monday, June 3, 2013

- successes -

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  • If you group successes together and look for what makes them similar, the only real answer will be luck.
  • A stupid decision that works out well becomes a brilliant decision in hindsight.
  • The advice business is a monopoly run by survivors
  • Those who fail rarely get paid for advice on how not to fail, which is too bad because despite how it may seem, success boils down to serially avoiding catastrophic failure while routinely absorbing manageable damage.

Friday, January 25, 2013

- man in the mirror -

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"We but mirror the world. All the tendencies present in the outer world are to be found in the world of our body. If we could change ourselves, the tendencies in the world would also change. As a man changes his own nature, so does the attitude of the world change towards him. This is the divine mystery supreme. A wonderful thing it is and the source of our happiness. We need not wait to see what others do."

Better known as "Be the change you want to see in the world.", by Mahatma Gandhi

Thursday, January 24, 2013

- wake up -

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There is something called Sensory Gating and it refers to the brains process of filtering unnecessary stimuli, in order to protect our beautiful minds, to prevent us from going crazy. People with schizophrenia and autism have problems with Sensory Gating. There is also something called Latent Inhibition, being the latency of acquiring the information from our senses, it's related to the first. Low Latent Inhibition would be a incapability to ignore the constant stream of stimuli, or capability to sense more than a normal person, depends how you prefer to see it. This is quite tied up with the IQ, meaning that people with higher IQ are more likely to actually handle all that information (capability), whilst people with lower IQ might find Low Latent Inhibition quite troublesome (incapability).
If you have been watching Prison Break, you will know that Michael Scofield had Low Latent Inhibition, which, no surprise there, made him a ... genius.

Now, LLI means that you observe everything - what you see, hear, feel, touch, think, taste, all of it (whether you cope with it or not, that's another story). The question would be - is there something as Social Low Latent Inhibition? In my mind this would be capability to perceive a huge quantity of information from the interaction with people - the way they look, how they talk, what they say, what they don't say, what is their expression, does it match what they say, how they actually appear to feel, does it match what they are trying to present, etc. I am aware that we all do this, we process all these kind of information, but what if you overdo it? What if you can't block the fact that a person just lied to you and won't admit it? What if they are saying something, giving a reason, when you know that it is made up, right on the spot and that behind are other more basic reasons? What if the person really tries to wear their mask, but you see past that and you just can't make them understand that you see past their mask?
It doesn't help you, the fact that you can see all that. No one, well, almost no one, will admit it, cause most of the times you will see things that maybe even the person itself didn't knew where there. It rarely helps you in communication, cause people don't really like being caught. Also people don't like when you "read" them, unless you tell them something good about them. What do you do? Keep it all for yourself? Ignore it? Throw it to their face? That's a risky one.
Does it take high Emotional Intelligence to be able to cope with all this?

Or maybe, most of the people are like that, and there's nothing special about the fact that you can be really emphatic and sense what people feel and, even worse, sense the lies behind their persona... cause, lets face it, we all put up an emotional mask, and we don't really want others to know what sick, fucked up, reality is behind it.

Anyway, I was just wondering...

Tuesday, January 22, 2013

- new beginnings -

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New beginnings are hard, especially when you decide that you want a new beginning, that you want a change. There is not much that can help you, it's you against yourself and everything you were up to the point of the decision. It is much easier when life forces you to change something. Well, maybe not easier, cause it is usually something bad that happened and it made you change yourself, but the transition is more seamless and more imposing. After all, it is better when it is your decision, although chances of success are smaller, cause at the end you will look back and say "Yes, this is my life, and not some series of (un)fortunate events."

On that thought I find it curious and somehow admiring that there is a community like this: http://www.potsc.com/
These people have some really interesting and sometimes scary stories. Some of those stories can make you reevaluate your priorities and problems, at least for a few brief moments.
In the end, we are all people of the new chances, every day even so.